How would I describe myself? I am an enigma. A complex individual, who in essence is simple to understand and satisfy. I find pleasure in the intricacies of the mind, as well as in the innocence of the senses. I love to learn, to explore, to experience. I want to sample everything that life has to offer, with enthusiasm, passion and appreciation. I am ambitious, in that I believe that a successful life is self-made. I want my thoughts to be my own self-fulfilling prophecy. I am bold, in that I am confident, brave and enterprising. I want to win my way through the world. I am charismatic, in that I believe in my own personal power to attract, influence and inspire people. I am endearing, in that my almost-childish curiosity about the world and people in general, helps to disarm those I meet. To know me is to have affection for me. I am open, in that I have an opinion on everything, but an eagerness to be challenged, confronted or converted on all ideas. Nothing is fixed. Growth is found in adaptability. I am sensual, in that I find immense gratification in the experience of my body. To taste, touch, smell, hear and see. This is my vehicle for understanding bliss, and I feel no guilt in gluttony. I want to grow as an individual. I believe that all the people we encounter on our paths have something to teach us, if we are willing to be open-minded and accept the truth in all situations. I therefore strive to surround myself, and put myself in the way of, the people whom I perceive to have the attributes I aspire to ... the well-educated, successful, powerful, wealthy, intellectual, fervent, generous, benevolent, tolerant, philanthropic, and humane members of our society. Those with the most valuable lessons to pass onâ?¦. One of my favourite concepts for success is - find somebody who has been doing it longer than you have, who has made a success of it, and who is in the position where you aspire to be, and ask them how they did it so that you can mimic their steps to victory. I want to be surrounded by the finer things in life. I have an innate belief that I deserve these things, and I am willing to work to have them. I like to live in comfort and luxury. I love good food, good music, good conversation. I like being spoiled, because a gift can make anybody feel valued and acknowledged. I want to travel, and see the big wide world out there (and first-class doesnâ??t hurt along the way). I am an avid reader, with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. I am very active, and enjoy being physical and sporty. This lady doesnâ??t mind getting dirt under her nails, as long as thereâ??s a luxurious, pampering bath at the other end of it. I believe in trying everything at least once, for thatâ??s the only sure way to know. I am the ideal girlfriend, who can cook, clean, entertain, cuddle, listen, comfort and play, but these things neednâ??t be experienced within the confines of a traditional relationship. I believe in love, and also that itâ??s not found only in the generic dose of marriage. There are many ways to have a meaningful relationship, and sometimes this goes against the grain of convention. Happiness is individual, and I firmly trust in doing that which brings me the most happiness within my own context, regardless of how it is perceived by others. I am a composite masterpiece, made up of unique emotional, physical, cerebral and spiritual attributes. To learn to know me is a challenge and an adventure.