I DON'T LOOK AT WINKS, fyi In no particular order...I am healthy, physically proportionate, intelligent, attractive, happy, stable, celibate, baggage-free, never married, no kids, 1 dog, employed, no tattoos, ears pierced only, not religious but appreciate beauty in nature as if it is a religion of its own (but I'm still not a fruitcake about it, just an admirer), great lifelong relationships with family and friends, feminine, love induging in fine champagne and day spas, easily comfortable very formal or very casual, like dogs and cats, well-traveled, with Midwestern-origin and European heritage. Given my heritage and Midwestern upbringing, I am a bit reserved at first but do warm up with time and connection. I'm old-fashioned and would appreciate discovering a partner for life so rushing into sex is simply not necessary. If we progress toward marriage and actually become engaged, I promise you that I am well worth all the waiting. My parents have enjoyed marriage to each other for over 50 years. I'd like as close to that as possible someday. If I had an ideal wish, I would wish for a man whose intelligence and leadership I can freely respect; and I would wish that same man would choose to cherish my feelings especially when they don't make any logical sense, since realistically, women filter emotions first, right? I'm not nuts, just a girl. BTW, I get asked a lot what's "wrong with me" since I haven't been married before, and the upfront answer is nothing is wrong with me OR with the fantastic men I have dated. I was not ready or willing to accept responsibility of co-nuturing a committment with someone for life until recent years; that's it, no drama. Yes, I do live in Los Angeles; but no, I don't believe in a 48-hour marriage or less. In other words, I'm happier alone than with a shotgun relationship.